Kasia Szustow, intimacy coordinator, Cologne
  • Intimacy coordinator
Born 1981 in Warsaw (44 Years)

News

  • Tages_Anzeiger: Live-Sex auf der Bühne
    Als erstes Schweizer Theater arbeitet das Schauspielhaus mit einem Intimacy Coach. Kasia Szustow erklärt, wie sie arbeitet – und warum das Theater sein Publikum warnt.
    https://bit.ly/Tages_Anzeiger_Szustow
  • NZZ: Wie Intimacy-Coaches neuerdings Übergriffe stoppen sollen
    Am Schauspielhaus Zürich werden in der laufenden Spielzeit erstmals sogenannte Intimacy-Coaches eingesetzt. Ihre Aufgabe ist es, Schauspielerinnen und Schauspielern in heiklen Szenen den Rücken zu stärken. Das wird nicht von allen goutiert.
    https://bit.ly/NZZ_Szustow
  • Vogue Magazine: Kasia Szustow - the Intimacy Coordinator
    In the summer, the thriller series directed by Jan Holoubek 'Rojst '97' (the second season of the series, 2021) appeared on the Netflix platform, on which Szustow was already working in a new role.

    At the same time, she is undergoing a series of training courses for intimacy scene coordinators under the guidance of specialists in the industry. Amanda Blumenthal of the Intimacy Professionals Association, the first intimacy coordinator in Los Angeles, who has just become her individual mentor.

    'Intimacy happens at the intersection of fantasy and the body, and it's easy to get lost, to lose track,' she says. That's why she always starts her work with an actress or actor with the phrase: "Your boundaries are in the perfect place, we just need to name them".
    https://bit.ly/Vogue_Szustow

About Kasia Szustow

Kasia Szustow (IPG) is a certified intimacy coordinator, member of the European Intimacy Practitioners' Guild, facilitator of safer creative processes for performance art.

She coordinated more than 130 scenes for 22 international films and series productions in Europe (PL, DE, US, CH, RO, GR, CZ, ES), serving SAG-AFTRA stars and debuting students.

Kasia was the driving force behind the creation of the "Polish Guidelines for Intimate Scenes, 2022", which were developed through a collaborative process involving 18 representatives from various prominent Polish film organisations representing all film departments.

In collaboration with a group of experts, she co-curated the program of the International Conference for Intimacy Coordination in Berlin (2024).

She is a graduate of the Aleksander Zelwerowicz National Academy of Dramatic Art in Warsaw (MA Theatre Studies) and the Warsaw School of Economics (post-MA: Project Management, post-MA: Coaching). She was a guest lecturer at the Filmwissenschaft Institut Johannes Gutenberg-Universität Mainz (2023-2024).

Following a seven-year period in Zurich (2016-2023), she is based in Cologne, Germany.

Szustow has worked for Schauspielhaus Zürich on two productions as an Intimacy Coach for "Kurze Interviews mit fiesen Männern – 22 Arten der Einsamkeit" based on David F. Wallace, directed by Yana Ross (2021), and as Consent Coach for the production "Wilhelm Tell" by Switzerland's most important director Milo Rau (2022).

She finished one-year Safe Sets–Netflix Apprentices developing Intimacy Coordination talents for Netflix across the EMEA region. The course was a part of Grow Creative global fund created by Netflix to support Inclusion & Diversity initiatives in the industry. (Certificate 2021)

Known for

Fictional movies as intimacy coordinator

YearTitleGenreDirectorProducerComment
2025Identitti (WT)Feature FilmRanda ChahoudRazor Film Produktion GmbH [de]
2025Hallo Betty (WT)Feature FilmPierre MonnardC-Films AG
2024Rosebush Pruning (WT)Feature FilmKarim AïnouzMatch Factory Productions GmbH
2024Gepellte Haut (WT)Feature FilmLeonie KrippendorffKineo Filmproduktion Peter Hartwig [de]
2024Tatort - ColoniusTV-Movie (Series), WDR [de]Charlotte RolfesBavaria Fiction GmbH
2024The Empress
as 2nd Intimacy Coordinator (leading IC Madli Moos)
TV Series, NetflixBarbara OttSommerhaus Serien GmbHas 2nd Intimacy Coordinator (leading IC Madli Moos)
2024Porządny człowiekTV Series, HBO MaxAleksandra TerpińskaTVN Warner Bros. Discovery (previously TVN) [pl]
2024Projekt UFOLimited series, NetflixKasper BajonTelemark [pl]
2023Subteran
& Sam Murray (2nd Intimacy Coordinator)
TV Series, NetflixOctav GheorgheMobra Films [ro]& Sam Murray (2nd Intimacy Coordinator)
2023Dangerous TruthTV Series, ARD [de], Degeto [de], WDR [de]Barbara EderEikon Media GmbH [de]
2023NeumattTV Series, SRF [ch]Bettina OberliZodiac Pictures
2023The AssessmentFeature FilmFleur Fortunéaugenschein Filmproduktion
2023Nudging (WT)Medium Length FilmJulius WeigelZHdK Zürcher Hochschule der Künste (formerly HGKZ) [ch]
2023Woman OfFeature FilmMałgorzata SzumowskaMadants [pl]
2023In the Lost LandsFeature FilmPaul W.S. AndersonConstantin Film [de]
2022FreestyleTV Movie, NetflixMaciej BochniakAurum Film [pl]
2022The Interpreter of SilenceLimited series, Disney+Isa PrahlGaumont GmbH [de]
2022Perfect AddictionFeature Film, Prime Video (Amazon)Castille LandonConstantin Film [de]
2021FilipFeature Film, TVP [pl]Michał KwiecińskiAkson Studio [pl]
2021ElephantIndependent Feature FilmKamil KrawczyckiTongariro Releasing [pl]

Other projects

YearProject typeTitleActivityCompany
2024work as a lecturer"Let's Be Series: Akcelerator Produkcji Serialowej"Jak pracować ze scenami intymnymi?KIPA, PL
2024ConsultingEnergaCAMERIMAGE Film FestivalCrisis First AiderFundacja Tumult, PL
2024work as a lecturerIntimate Scenes – Planning, preparation and collaboration2 days workshop for Producers, AD, Costume Dep.FOCAL – Stiftung Weiterbildung Film und Audiovision, Bern, CH
2024work as a lecturerLet's Talk Sex"Intimacy Coordination - an introduction to the new film/theater profession"Theaterakademie Köln
2023 - 2024ConsultingICIC 2024 - International Conference for Intimacy CoordinationCo-curator of the programBIK
2023work as a lecturer"Intimacy in the Art Practice"Workshop for the Directors DepartmentInternationale Filmschule Köln
2023 - 2024work as a lecturerSeminar: "TOUCH - between physical contact and artistic impact"Institut für Film-, Theater-, Medien- und KulturwissenschaftJohannes Gutenberg-Universität Mainz
2023work as a lecturerIntroduction to a intimacy coordination1st Year "Garage"Internationale Filmschule Köln
2023event (company)How to Film Sex?39th Film Festival FAMUFESTFAMU (the Academy of Performing Arts in Prague, CZ)
2023work as a lecturerWorkshops: How to implement consent culture in creative process?Living Diversity ConferenceFilmakademie Baden-Württemberg GmbH
2023work as a lecturerKeynote: "Consent in creative process"Living Diversity ConferenceFilmakademie Baden-Württemberg GmbH
2022Consulting"Polish Guidelines for Scenes Involving Nudity and Simulated Sex"Initiator, Co-Author, Founderhttps://bezpieczenstwo-film.pl/
2021 - 2022ConsultingCrisis CoachCrisis CoachFilm School in Łódź
2020 - 2023Magic artTeam CoachTeam CoachDi Factory

Training

Year 
2024Mental Health First Aid England (Mental Health First Aid refresher)
2021/8 to 2022/8Safe Sets SA/ Netflix (Netflix Intimacy Coordination Development Program for the EMEA Region)
2021/5 to 2021/6Intimacy Directors & Coordinators, LA, US (Consent in Academia; 6 weeks course)
2021/2 to 2021/3Intimacy Directors & Coordinators, LA, US (Stage Managing Intimacy; 3 weeks course)
2021Mental Health First Aid England (Mental Health First Aid course)
2020/9 to 2021/7Warsaw School of Economics (Coaching; post-MA, one-year studies)
2006/9 to 2007/6Warsaw School of Economics (Project Management; post-MA, one year studies)
2000/10 to 2006/6Aleksander Zelwerowicz National Academy of Dramatic Art in Warsaw [pl] (MA Theatre Studies)

Basic data

LanguagesEnglishGermanPolishRussian
Experience abroadCentral Europe: Germany, Switzerland
Western Europe: England
Special skillsSafe creative process's facilitator with sense of humour
Own equipmentIntimacy kit (modesty garments)
LicencesB (car) [eu], First Responder DGUV 304-001 [de]
EducationCertified Intimacy Coordinator (affiliation: Netflix, Sefe Sets), member of the European Intimacy Practitioners' Guild, crisis first aider. Graduate of the Theatre Academy in Warsaw (5 years MA studies, 2006) and the Warsaw School of Economics (post-MA: project management 2007, coaching 2021).

Besides of 220+ hours intimacy coordination training Kasia passed certificated courses:
– MENTAL HEALTH FIRST AID (MHFA England), 2021; 2024
– SEXUAL HARASSMENT PREVENTION
– SAFEGUARDING CHILDREN, level2
– BULLYING & HARASSMENT
– EQUALITY, DIVERSITY & INCLUSION
– CONFLICT RESOLUTION

In addition to Netflix&Safe Sets training Kasia took part in series of seminars and courses organized by Intimacy Directors and Coordinators (US), Intimacy on Set (UK), Intimacy For Stage And Screen (UK), Theatrical Intimacy Education (US):
– Consent in Academia – 6 weeks course / Judi Lewis Ockler, Renee Redding-Jones, IDC
– Stage Managing Intimacy – 3 weeks course / Alexis Black Tina Newhauser, IDC
– Content Warnings for Theatre for Intimacy Directors and Coordinators / Gaby Labotka
– Digging Deeper into Boundaries / Samantha Kaufman
– Staging Intimacy with Young Actors for Educators with Intimacy for Stage and Screen
– Facilitating Group Closure / Mitchell McCoy
– Modesty Garments, Barriers, Masking / Chelsea Pace (TIE)
– Best Practices / Chelsea Pace (TIE)
– An introduction to Intimacy for Producers working in Film and TV / Ita O’Brien
– Introduction to the world of Intimacy Coordination for the screen / Lizzy Talbot
– Intimacy in Opera / Tonia Sina, Doug Scholz-Carlson
– Intimacy Across Borders / Lizzy Talbot, Claire Warden
– Birth and Other High-Exposure Scenes / Carly Zien, Elan McAllister, NYC Women Filmmakers
– Consideration and Protocols for Working with Children & Minors / Amanda Cutting
– Intimacy from page to screen / Mia Schachter
– Self Care & Burn Out Prevention, The Association of Mental Health Coordinators
– Writing a Code of Conduct
Further referencesCertified Intimacy Coordinator (affiliation: Netflix, Sefe Sets)
the European Intimacy Practitioners' Guild full member
Preferred place of workGlobal
Immediate working areaCologne
2nd residence (if applicable)Warsaw
Tax residence (federal state or country)Germany - North Rhine-Westphalia
Accommodation possibilitiesCologne, Warsaw
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